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  • Eu passo por momentos tao significantes na minha trajetoria, que as vezes eu duvidaria deles se me contassem antes de acontecerem.
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    Esse da foto foi um desses momentos. Fomos visitar o predio que os meninos moraram ate os dois anos, antes de mudarem pro Brasil.
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    Dividir com eles esse momento super especial foi maravilhoso!!! Estavamos todos tao felizes, tao completos, tao unidos!!! Foi magico mesmo! Massss...se me falassem ha uns anos atras que eu faria isso, eu possivelmente responderia: NUNCA! 🤭
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    Pois é, nem tudo foram Flores na minha vida de madrasta. Não por causa dos meninos, pois sempre foram pessoas amaveis e unicas, mas por toda a situacao ao redor do simples fato de ser "madrasta". .
    Mas o que eu posso dizer é que com o tempo as situaçoes se ajeitam. Tomam rumos melhores. Todos os envolvidos amadurecem (ou melhora ou desiste). E a vida toma outra cor, coisas inaceitaveis se tornam toleraveis e coisas impossiveis se tornam possiveis, assim como foi a minha ida neste lugar da foto. E somente sai perdendo muito, quem nao aproveita essas oportunidades de crescimento que a vida nos proporciona.
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    Eu sou um adulto referencia para esses meninos, os quais em breve serão adultos tambem! Nesta viagem que fizemos, pude perceber o quanto somos conectados. O quanto eles me reconhecem como uma pessoa confiavel e unica na vida deles. E logico que fico toda orgulhosa, babona, coruja, derretida, etc, etc...
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    Eu sou muito privilegiada por estar ao lado deles nesta vida. Exatamente nesta condiçao. E sinto um mega orgulho de ter chegado ate aqui!!!
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    #madrasta #stepmom #familiamosaico #familiareconstituida #amor #blendedfamily #love #filhos #filhosdocoracao
  • Eu passo por momentos tao significantes na minha trajetoria, que as vezes eu duvidaria deles se me contassem antes de acontecerem.
.
Esse da foto foi um desses momentos. Fomos visitar o predio que os meninos moraram ate os dois anos, antes de mudarem pro Brasil.
.
Dividir com eles esse momento super especial foi maravilhoso!!! Estavamos todos tao felizes, tao completos, tao unidos!!! Foi magico mesmo! Massss...se me falassem ha uns anos atras que eu faria isso, eu possivelmente responderia: NUNCA! 🤭
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Pois é, nem tudo foram Flores na minha vida de madrasta. Não por causa dos meninos, pois sempre foram pessoas amaveis e unicas, mas por toda a situacao ao redor do simples fato de ser "madrasta". .
Mas o que eu posso dizer é que com o tempo as situaçoes se ajeitam. Tomam rumos melhores. Todos os envolvidos amadurecem (ou melhora ou desiste). E a vida toma outra cor, coisas inaceitaveis se tornam toleraveis e coisas impossiveis se tornam possiveis, assim como foi a minha ida neste lugar da foto. E somente sai perdendo muito, quem nao aproveita essas oportunidades de crescimento que a vida nos proporciona.
.
Eu sou um adulto referencia para esses meninos, os quais em breve serão adultos tambem! Nesta viagem que fizemos, pude perceber o quanto somos conectados. O quanto eles me reconhecem como uma pessoa confiavel e unica na vida deles. E logico que fico toda orgulhosa, babona, coruja, derretida, etc, etc...
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Eu sou muito privilegiada por estar ao lado deles nesta vida. Exatamente nesta condiçao. E sinto um mega orgulho de ter chegado ate aqui!!!
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#madrasta #stepmom #familiamosaico #familiareconstituida #amor #blendedfamily #love #filhos #filhosdocoracao
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  • Our little man is 4 months old today! We are so lucky to have you beautiful boy💙
  • Our little man is 4 months old today! We are so lucky to have you beautiful boy💙
  •  8  2 7 minutes ago
  • Why is it when my friends kid acts up or I share parenting advice with her she thanks me. In the past when I have share my fear, stood up for my child to his birth mom I am a monster looking for drama out to hurt someone. It totally makes sense birth moms and step,bonus,mom don’t get along. I don’t even get along and agree with everything my spouse says or does. I understand I picked my spouse, his ex didn’t pick me but didn’t she give up the right to care once she cheated and left him? I wish I knew why she never liked me, it would make this whole situation a bit easier. I’m not a person that needs to be liked. I also don’t like having my spiritual and emotional growth stunt. I often wonder if it really had anything to do with me or if it purely about my husband. Does she blame him for their failed relationship, she does think he doesn’t have the right to be happy. Is it hard on her seeing he might not be the problem this woman is able to have a relationship with him and thrive. Is it because he never wanted to marry her and instantly wanted to marry me and we started a family. Is it because she has to be liked the most and my husband stands up against her for me. Maybe she thinks since he birth his child first she is better. My gut tells me, she doesn’t like me because she thinks she is better then me. I know for a fact that she tells people I’m jealous of her. #MyThoughts #ItTakesAVillage #Teamwork #MyStory #MyTruth #StepMom #StepMum #BonusMom #RawMotherhood #CupOfTea
  • Why is it when my friends kid acts up or I share parenting advice with her she thanks me. In the past when I have share my fear, stood up for my child to his birth mom I am a monster looking for drama out to hurt someone. It totally makes sense birth moms and step,bonus,mom don’t get along. I don’t even get along and agree with everything my spouse says or does. I understand I picked my spouse, his ex didn’t pick me but didn’t she give up the right to care once she cheated and left him? I wish I knew why she never liked me, it would make this whole situation a bit easier. I’m not a person that needs to be liked. I also don’t like having my spiritual and emotional growth stunt. I often wonder if it really had anything to do with me or if it purely about my husband. Does she blame him for their failed relationship, she does think he doesn’t have the right to be happy. Is it hard on her seeing he might not be the problem this woman is able to have a relationship with him and thrive. Is it because he never wanted to marry her and instantly wanted to marry me and we started a family. Is it because she has to be liked the most and my husband stands up against her for me. Maybe she thinks since he birth his child first she is better. My gut tells me, she doesn’t like me because she thinks she is better then me. I know for a fact that she tells people I’m jealous of her. #MyThoughts #ItTakesAVillage #Teamwork #MyStory #MyTruth #StepMom #StepMum #BonusMom #RawMotherhood #CupOfTea
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  • From my heart to yours ❤️
  • From my heart to yours ❤️
  •  15  1 3 hours ago
  • The woods is a really good place for reflecting. It’s peaceful and quiet which is the perfect time to really think, pray, and reflect.
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    A few weeks ago I went hunting with my daddy and the Lord laid something on my heart. I have fought it since that day, but I now feel that I can no longer ignore this.
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    Why? Well because we aren’t promised tomorrow and I KNOW that this can help at least one person.
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    So here it goes...
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    At the age of 21, right out of college, I got married. 2 years later I was divorced.
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    Yes, you read that right. My first marriage only lasted 2 years. And yes, I know, marriage is supposed to last a lifetime. That is why I felt ashamed.
    I felt embarrassed.
    I felt unworthy.
    I felt unloved.
    I felt like a failure.
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    And failure was not something I was familiar with if I’m being honest.
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    I mean I was in the top 10 of my high school class; I was a starter in basketball from my freshman year of high school through my senior year of college (minus the time I was battling black mold); I received a full university scholarship to play basketball; I graduated college with the second highest honors you can receive. I mean don’t get me wrong. I had to work my freaking butt off for all of that, but looking back I didn’t fail a whole lot. (I obviously failed at times but I’m talking in general and as a whole).
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    So feeling like a failure crushed me. I felt like I failed every single person in my life. That I was unworthy to still feel any kind of happiness whatsoever or worthy enough for my life to truly matter.
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    I felt like there was no way out of the dark place I had wound up in. I literally cut myself off from my family and friends (the very few that I had then) and stayed inside my little bubble. I didn’t want to go anywhere or do anything because of that shame and unworthiness that followed me around.
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    I’m telling you all of this because now, NOW I know that I am worthy.
    NOW I know that I am loved.
    NOW I know that all of those feelings were the enemy trying to push me away from our one true king and His purpose for my life.
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  • The woods is a really good place for reflecting. It’s peaceful and quiet which is the perfect time to really think, pray, and reflect.
. .
. .
A few weeks ago I went hunting with my daddy and the Lord laid something on my heart. I have fought it since that day, but I now feel that I can no longer ignore this.
. .
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Why? Well because we aren’t promised tomorrow and I KNOW that this can help at least one person.
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So here it goes...
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At the age of 21, right out of college, I got married. 2 years later I was divorced.
. .
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Yes, you read that right. My first marriage only lasted 2 years. And yes, I know, marriage is supposed to last a lifetime. That is why I felt ashamed.
I felt embarrassed.
I felt unworthy.
I felt unloved.
I felt like a failure.
. .
. .
And failure was not something I was familiar with if I’m being honest.
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. .
I mean I was in the top 10 of my high school class; I was a starter in basketball from my freshman year of high school through my senior year of college (minus the time I was battling black mold); I received a full university scholarship to play basketball; I graduated college with the second highest honors you can receive. I mean don’t get me wrong. I had to work my freaking butt off for all of that, but looking back I didn’t fail a whole lot. (I obviously failed at times but I’m talking in general and as a whole).
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So feeling like a failure crushed me. I felt like I failed every single person in my life. That I was unworthy to still feel any kind of happiness whatsoever or worthy enough for my life to truly matter.
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I felt like there was no way out of the dark place I had wound up in. I literally cut myself off from my family and friends (the very few that I had then) and stayed inside my little bubble. I didn’t want to go anywhere or do anything because of that shame and unworthiness that followed me around.
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I’m telling you all of this because now, NOW I know that I am worthy.
NOW I know that I am loved.
NOW I know that all of those feelings were the enemy trying to push me away from our one true king and His purpose for my life.
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⬇️⬇️READ MORE IN COMMENTS⬇️⬇️
  •  7  2 3 hours ago
  • This kid you guys...he’s been asking for bubble baths every day ((sometimes wants to take 2 per day 🤣)) It’s forced me into a routine of relaxation and and reflection. Sit in the water, take time to regroup and focus on bubbles, that sh*t is therapeutic 👌🏼 Made me curious, do you guys have a set routine for relaxing or does it kinda just pop up when you get time? Do you have a favorite way to unwind? ⚡️
  • This kid you guys...he’s been asking for bubble baths every day ((sometimes wants to take 2 per day 🤣)) It’s forced me into a routine of relaxation and and reflection. Sit in the water, take time to regroup and focus on bubbles, that sh*t is therapeutic 👌🏼 Made me curious, do you guys have a set routine for relaxing or does it kinda just pop up when you get time? Do you have a favorite way to unwind? ⚡️
  •  31  2 3 hours ago
  • We’re over the hump, y’all! 2 more days to the weekend! As we head into Friday Eve, I thought it would be fun to share a few more random facts about me: 1️⃣ Apparently, I have small feet for my height. I’m just under 5’6” + wear a 6.5 shoe. I almost always luck out on clearance shoe racks! 2️⃣ I’m an ARMY brat, born in Germany + raised in Washington. 3️⃣ When I was younger, I wanted to be a teacher. Then I grew up and realized I didn’t like kids that much. So, I became an HR professional and get to babysit adults, instead. 🤦🏾‍♀️ 4️⃣ I was a full grown adult when Laguna Beach debuted on MTV and I tuned in every week like I had something in common with rich white teenagers who always seemed to be beefing with one another + whose parents never seemed to be around. 5️⃣ If you’re close to me and you cry a lot, I might laugh at you. Not because I WANT to make light of your sadness, but because I’m an #enneagram7 and prefer to avoid tapping into my emotions. What can I say? I’m a work in progress. 😬 Tell me something random about you!





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  • We’re over the hump, y’all! 2 more days to the weekend! As we head into Friday Eve, I thought it would be fun to share a few more random facts about me: 1️⃣ Apparently, I have small feet for my height. I’m just under 5’6” + wear a 6.5 shoe. I almost always luck out on clearance shoe racks! 2️⃣ I’m an ARMY brat, born in Germany + raised in Washington. 3️⃣ When I was  younger, I wanted to be a teacher. Then I grew up and realized I didn’t like kids that much. So, I became an HR professional and get to babysit adults, instead. 🤦🏾‍♀️ 4️⃣ I was a full grown adult when Laguna Beach debuted on MTV and I tuned in every week like I had something in common with rich white teenagers who always seemed to be beefing with one another + whose parents never seemed to be around. 5️⃣ If you’re close to me and you cry a lot, I might laugh at you. Not because I WANT to make light of your sadness, but because I’m an #enneagram7 and prefer to avoid tapping into my emotions. What can I say? I’m a work in progress. 😬 Tell me something random about you!
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#hypebeast #hypebeaststyle #styleblogger #fashionblogger #christianblogger #winterfashion #winterstyle #aboutalook #dallasblogger #dallasstyleblogger #texasblogger #momstyle #momstyleblogger #momiform #bonusmom #stepmom
  •  45  6 3 hours ago
  • Well over a decade ago I thought of trauma strictly from a medical standpoint. Wounds, injury, abrasions you name it. That was before life proved otherwise and I unwillingly learned that trauma is in fact so much more. Fast forward fifteen years or so and here we are, a family built on trauma. And even though four out of five of these kiddos have been through things most adults haven’t been through, they still manage to wake up every day with a smile on their face and a pep in their step. Last week a complete stranger left a message for me on social media saying “Pull your big girl panties up! Not all of us marry someone and get to stay home doing crafts and drinking coffee all day!” Isn’t it amazing how often people think these little squares define who we are? As if what we choose to post on here is all there is to us? It got me thinking about all the mama’s across the globe and the love and time we give raising our littles, every day, every night, even during the times when life challenges seem to be suffocating us. The stay at home mom, the work from home mom, the homeschool mom, the new mom, the seasoned mom, the single mom, the bonus mom, the adoptive mom, the special needs mom, the empty nester mom, ALL of us. The details of our days are not meant to be shared every step of the way, but just know that whatever joy filled moments you do choose to share in this space are YOURS. 100% YOURS. So be it filled with coffee or colored with crafts, just do you. And do it shame free, love filled, grace overflowing and with enough confidence to shake off the coffee crafting haters.😉
  • Well over a decade ago I thought of trauma strictly from a medical standpoint. Wounds, injury, abrasions you name it. That was before life proved otherwise and I unwillingly learned that trauma is in fact so much more. Fast forward fifteen years or so and here we are, a family built on trauma. And even though four out of five of these kiddos have been through things most adults haven’t been through, they still manage to wake up every day with a smile on their face and a pep in their step. Last week a complete stranger left a message for me on social media saying “Pull your big girl panties up! Not all of us marry someone and get to stay home doing crafts and drinking coffee all day!” Isn’t it amazing how often people think these little squares define who we are? As if what we choose to post on here is all there is to us? It got me thinking about all the mama’s across the globe and the love and time we give raising our littles, every day, every night, even during the times when life challenges seem to be suffocating us. The stay at home mom, the work from home mom, the homeschool mom, the new mom, the seasoned mom, the single mom, the bonus mom, the adoptive mom, the special needs mom, the empty nester mom, ALL of us. The details of our days are not meant to be shared every step of the way, but just know that whatever joy filled moments you do choose to share in this space are YOURS. 100% YOURS. So be it filled with coffee or colored with crafts, just do you. And do it shame free, love filled, grace overflowing and with enough confidence to shake off the coffee crafting haters.😉
  •  92  9 3 hours ago
  • Multitasking at its finest! 😂😂😂
  • Multitasking at its finest! 😂😂😂
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  • EMOJI TIME! 😜 Drop them below!
    If you knew you couldn't fail -- what would YOU want to ACHIEVE? 👇🏼 💙Control of your nutrition
    ❤️Stronger body
    💚Get rid of a FEW lbs/inches
    💜Get rid of a LOT of lbs/inches
    💛All of the above

    Drop your colored heart BELOW!
  • EMOJI TIME! 😜 Drop them below! 
If you knew you couldn't fail -- what would YOU want to ACHIEVE? 👇🏼 💙Control of your nutrition
❤️Stronger body
💚Get rid of a FEW lbs/inches
💜Get rid of a LOT of lbs/inches
💛All of the above

Drop your colored heart BELOW!
  •  26  4 5 hours ago